Important safety note
Dec. 23rd, 2010 09:01 am![[personal profile]](https://www.dreamwidth.org/img/silk/identity/user.png)
Do not let your family live near you.
Argh, I'm so frustrated right now.
My husband's sister moved from Midland to Austin. Since she's been here I have discovered that the phrase 'it's a nice place to visit, but I wouldn't want to live there' is so true.
My sister in law was awesome when she lived 8 hours away and we saw her once a year.
But she lives 5 minutes away now. She used to come over every day and complain.....about EVERYTHING. My husband finally told her to stay away.
She used to come over at 7:30 in the morning. Who gets up that early? Not us. We're having sex in the morning and roll out of bed around 9 or 10. So no coming over before noon.
She needed a cell phone as a hospice nursed and my husband thought he was being sweet and let her use his phone. I changed our plan to cover her day time calls for her job. Well then she gets herself thrown in the mental hospital, she quits her job, but she still makes day time calls like she's working.
And she's not. She's using 80% of our minutes and paying 20% of the bill.
I need to handle this with her. It's just very frustrating.
Argh, I'm so frustrated right now.
My husband's sister moved from Midland to Austin. Since she's been here I have discovered that the phrase 'it's a nice place to visit, but I wouldn't want to live there' is so true.
My sister in law was awesome when she lived 8 hours away and we saw her once a year.
But she lives 5 minutes away now. She used to come over every day and complain.....about EVERYTHING. My husband finally told her to stay away.
She used to come over at 7:30 in the morning. Who gets up that early? Not us. We're having sex in the morning and roll out of bed around 9 or 10. So no coming over before noon.
She needed a cell phone as a hospice nursed and my husband thought he was being sweet and let her use his phone. I changed our plan to cover her day time calls for her job. Well then she gets herself thrown in the mental hospital, she quits her job, but she still makes day time calls like she's working.
And she's not. She's using 80% of our minutes and paying 20% of the bill.
I need to handle this with her. It's just very frustrating.